k, long story short this guy i really really like always emails me and say that he loves me, and he’ll love me forever and all that stuff but then he says sis, like love you forever sis, and i reallllllyyyy like him he’s gorgeous, funny, smart, and totaly always there and sensitive but not to sensitive. what should i do i really need some heeelllppp!!!!
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It appears that you have the feeling that he loves you like a sister. This statement tells me that you got that impression by his emails. He may also think of you as a sister, and this is not a good way to start a relationship because he may always think of you as a sister, which will not be to your benefit or his were you and he to have a relationship that you may want to progress to a romantic relationship, and I am not talking just about having sex, but rather the progression from hand holding to kissing and mutual respect and caring for each other that you may want to develop to a mutually exclusive and committed loving relationship. This would not be possible were you to think he thinks of you as a sister, which is more like a friend rather than a potential lover. What he said gives the message that he hasn’t progressed to a point where he is ready for a relationship with a woman to perceive a woman as a woman and not compare her to a sister. I suggest asking him why he says “sis, like love you forever sis”. Listen carefully to his answer and decide whether you want give the relationship a try or not. Use your woman’s intuition to help you, as often times your intuition will tell you what direction you should take, and sometimes the first impression from your intuition will be give you the best clue. I wouldn’t want to be with a man if I were a woman if the man referred to me as sis. He may say he loves you, but does he love the image he has of a sister and not the real you? I hope you will be able to make the right decision for your benefit and not his. Ask yourself what you want in a man to grow with you and have a close relationship. He may or may not fit the picture you have. I would seriously consider his maturity and whether he is ready for a relationship. Good luck to you.
Oh well, what can you do? The answer is…nothing…absolutely nothing. He doesnt see you as anymore than a sister, so you have to accept that and move on. Find yourself a boyfriend, but dont look to him because you will get hurt. It always happens that way. When you find that perfect guy it turns out that he doesnt feel the same. I have that kind of luck. Too many brothers.
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what do i do? he loves me like a sister.?
k, long story short this guy i really really like always emails me and say that he loves me, and he'll love me forever and all that stuff but then he says sis, like love you forever sis, and i reallllllyyyy like him he's gorgeous, funny, smart, and totaly always there and sensitive but not…
HE LIKES YOU! But he’s afraid to tell you that he does and so he uses the word sis so that you won’t think anything weird or be bothered by him saying i love you. If you like him, then tell him!!!
okk, this sounds like me sorta..
my boyfriend (omigosh gives me thrills to say that!!:)) would always say i lovvvvee youu dongseng (little sister) and i reaaaaally liked him.. and now (as in REALLY now, as in like a day ago) he asked if we could go out.
he could be going with the sister thing just to hide that he really DOES like you, but he doesn’t want to tell you in case you dont like him back.. but he wants to show his feelings through “I LOVE YOU sis”
just keep beinn close with him, and show him slightly that you like him, and mb he’ll get the courage to ask you to homecoming or somthin..
good luck!! <3
I was in the same situation b4 and guess what…. we are together now!
Been that way for a year now. My advice to you is TELL HIM HOW U FEEL. Good luck!!
ask him if he really meant it..like a sister. maybe he is shy to admit that he loves you more than that. However, be prepared to accept possibile disappointment if he says he really loves you only as a sister.
Well, flirt with him. He could change. Guys are like that. Just keep flirting.
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Ask him if he likes you. I know it’s so much easier to say it than actually do it, but once you know the truth, you’ll feel so much better.
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try and flirt wit him.. make him see you in a way that you aren’t a sister. if he still rejects you then give up…more fish in da sea