This entire year, I’ve been in absolute love over one of my teachers.
She’s flirted with me this year, showed me more attention and touched me a couple of times.
She’s touched my arm, stroked my arm, patted me on the back, rubbed my back…..
I don’t mind, I would let her touch me all day if I could,
but is this alright?
The other day, she came over as I was talking to my table group, said something (i didn’t really hear it) and then rubbed my back, like an actually rub.
She’s done this before, I haven’t seen her touch anyone else in the class.
She always stares me right in the eyes, talks as though I’m her age and speaks to me as though I’m not a student.
The other day I walked past her and said “Hi Miss……….”, she looked at me, blushed, smiled and said hi back, she looked at me in a way which made me feel uncomfortable,
I love her, but, that ‘look’ was not right,
What are your thoughts on this?
13 Answers
I think there is nothing wrong or special about it…probably you are a trouble-maker and she knows that you like her. Knowing that approaching and touching you will help her to calm you down, she is doing it in the class. I guess other students behave nicely, and she does not touch them for this reason. “That look” as you said was not dirty or whatever…it was just a look of the person who thought of something maybe even her last night (sorry)…You have to consider her age…she might think of her boyfriend and looking at you show you some emotions…people of her age are much sexier and open than teenagers….spend one day quietly, and you will see no reaction from her…Sorry, but the whole world is not about you…it is your age that makes you think so…
I live in Australia and here it is NOT appropriate for any physical contact between teachers and students, absolutely none is allowed. If it happens, it can result in a sexual assault charge or sexual harrassment complaint against the teacher, who can then lose their job. Hopefully it is the same in your country and if so, you should think about that, and if you can’t get over having a big head because your teacher has the hots for you, then think about how it could ruin her life.
I could say tell your parents, but you are obviously enjoying yourself (and not keeping it to yourself I bet either) too much to concentrate on the real reason you are in that class. Every kid has a crush on someone who has authority over them and that’s normal. But this is wrong on two counts A, she is the adult here and clearly should know better and B, you are too young to know that this will come to no good for either of you if left unchecked. Hopefully one of the friends you are bragging to about it will have the good sense to tell your folks, because you are too besotted to do it yourself!
Love, what do you know of it when you’re still in school? You just have a huge ego, that’s all.
And get yourself a girlfriend your own age and experiment with love at your own innocent pace, as you should be doing and as is natural and normal and stop doing what you are doing, which is not in the least normal or appropriate. If I knew your parents, I’d tell them myself!
We’re not paying these outlandish taxes so that you can have drama in your life. Sit down, shut up, and do your work. There’s a reason you are in school, you’d better find out what that is so the rest of us don’t have to support you for the rest of your useless life.
I don’t mean to be unkind, dear, but life is hard and only going to get harder. Knuckle down. Get all A’s. Make yourself competitive in the very tight job market you will face at 18 or thereabouts.
I dont think thats very normal i would be freaked out, i mean what if he like took it too far? Keep in mind he could go to jail for being in a realationship with a minor let alone be caught holding her hand… Even being accused by another student could get him fired at the least.
You’ve probably been drooling over her in class and she knows what you are thinking. She’s the one who’s embarrassed, and you are the one who is inappropriate.
I’ll bet 95% of the cases where a priest or teacher is involved with a kid, it’s the kid’s fault. Someday, when humans grow up, we will know that neither age nor mental capacity is an excuse, and that all of us from birth to death are 100% responsible for what happens to us.
This is totally wrong… you must report her… she is abusing her position as your teacher… we all have crushes on teachers when at school… but that is all it is….. This is just awful and I feel very strongly that she must be reported.
She’s just flirting which is wromg. Nothing would ever happen between the two of you. Concentrate on your school work otherwise you will regret it. Please don’t think anything is going to happen.
I think this is something called… uh… let me see, harassment? If you under the age of reason, you can and should report her. She will be put on the sex offender registry, and taken care of.
We had nuns and priest for teachers, can’t help out with this big problem. My advice is to stay away from her.
dont even go there, these things never work out, its going to end in hurt feelings and her losing her job. it always does, happens way too much here in england.
If it makes YOU feel uncomfortable.. talk to your parents about it b4 it gets too far.
I hope I helped.