hi my gf is now 16 weeks pregnant in the beginning she was very hormonal it semed like she hated my guts she was constantly angry 24/7 with me it was if she felt nothing for me and just laughed in my face as she done it, we couldnt talk or anything, she threw me out of the house and i decided i was gonna not let this put me off her, she is the love of my life and id fight for this love, iv stood by her through all this anger and nastyness and i have gave her space. now she is 16 weeks 6 days preg, things have got betteer i now go to her house a couple of nights a week for a few hours and stay 2 nights a week, im fine with this arrangement, if that what she needs then ill do anything to make her happy again, the problem im having now though is that she has gone from being angry with me 24/7 to just ignoring me 24/7 i mean if i was to go to her house to sleep and i never said a word all night then we would just sit in silence till i go home, the only words i can get from her are,….yes…..well see……and im watching the telly, its really frustrating because when friends or family come round you cant shut her up, but as sson as she with me, its the silent treatment, i thought hormones stopped after you go into the second timester, maybe im wrong, it doesnt put me off her i love her through good and bad and ill always be here for her, but its kinda annoying at times, i can handle it in small doses but for the past 2 weeks i dont think iv even had a conversation with her??? she says she loves me, i can move back home in 3 months she never took me off the house books or nothing and we planned on getting hitched in a cpl years time, (we are already engadged) but i dont know whats up with her???? any ideas peops??
i have bought her flowers, i take her out on dates and for meals to relax her, she knows how excited i am about this baby and im gonna get up on nights change nappies etc im prepared 🙂 i think it must be hormones as she just doesnt seem to be bothered about anything really lol strange creatures lol she knows that ill never turn my back on her, she has a severly disabled 5 yr old daughter maybe that a worry for her but im great with her daughter i get up on nights for her when her daughter wakes up and get her back off to sleep, i cant wait for this baby and i just want a loving family and i only want that with her, she knows i love her so much and i know she loves me, i think it must be hormonal 🙂
i have bought her flowers, i take her out on dates and for meals to relax her, she knows how excited i am about this baby and im gonna get up on nights change nappies etc im prepared 🙂 i think it must be hormones as she just doesnt seem to be bothered about anything really lol strange creatures lol she knows that ill never turn my back on her, she has a severly disabled 5 yr old daughter maybe that a worry for her but im great with her daughter i get up on nights for her when her daughter wakes up and get her back off to sleep, i cant wait for this baby and i just want a loving family and i only want that with her, she knows i love her so much and i know she loves me, i think it must be hormonal 🙂
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i was the same as your girlfriend when i was pregnant i turned into a horrible person and it broke our relationship up at the time but i was like that all way through my pregnancy but as soon as i had him i was back to my normal self so stick to it and be there for her as much as you can even though shes acting like she doesnt want you really does deep down
She probably doesn’t want to talk with you because she is afraid of making plans. Did you guys really hammer out everything, do you know exactly what is expected of you? How much time she is taking off from work? Who is getting up with the baby at 1am and 5am for feedings? Breastfeeding or formula? Where will the baby sleep? Who is buying diapers? What brand of diapers? What do you expect from her? What does she think your role in the babies life will be? Does she want to get married BEFORE the birth?
See, if she talks with you about anything one of these things might come up and then it might snowball into a fight that she doesn’t want. The hormones are REALLY bad the first trimester, but I was in my 3rd trimester when one day during lunch I started to cry at a song on the radio and couldn’t stop crying for 6 hours!!!! Hormones are there all the time. The best thing you can do is figure out all the questions you want to ask her, and everything you are willing to do, be as sensitive as possible and write them down to talk about them. Other than that, offer to give her back rubs, feet rubs, and any candy bars or fruits she may want.
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Many girls break up with their significant others, is because they need time to figure things out. Don’t take it personally, if you want her back, you have to show her you can help her. If you love her then you’ll let her go, that’s it. Not everybody who you date in high school you end up staying with, the chances are extremely unlikely. So if she doesn’t want to, then you need to let her go.
seek professional advice. it may be risky but you could try giving her the silent treatment back for a day or two to see if she responds to that. But I think the best thing would be to seek professional advice one to one or on a website on pregnancy, mental health etc…
you try to be affectionate to her or court her again.. maybe that thing will do the trick!