I know the woman he got pregnant she works at a local store in my town.But we’re not good friends.We went to school together 15 days ago but now I only know her from the store.
He calmly told me he was sorry, he regrets it ever happened with her standing quietly by his side.He said even though he regretted it, this was his baby and he was responsible for it.He wanted to move her in with us until she had the baby.Of coarse I freaked out!I didn’t care if it was his responsibility.I wanted him to forget it and let her deal with it on her own.But of coarse he wouldn’t hear of it.
This dream went on all night.I was so upset I kept waking myself up and reassuring myself it was only a dream.Every time I fell back to sleep the stupid dream started back up pretty much where I left off.
Why would I have such a terrible nightmare?I trust my husband.He is ALWAYS the more responsible of the two of us.
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“To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, highlights your insecurities and your fears of being abandoned. You may feel some lack of attention in the relationship or that he or she is being less affectionate. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others.”
Hi Starla, it’s really good to hear from you. I worry about you, and think of you more often than you realize. Considering what we’ve spoken of in the past, it’s a pretty natural dream for you to have. Two thoughts come to mind immediately: first, if he does something really awful, then you don’t have to feel as guilty about the past; second,if he does something really awful it’s what you deserve for not being as good a wife as you think you should be. I don’t know how you’re doing, but if things haven’t changed much, I’m afraid you’re going to continue to have threatening dreams. I’d like to be more specific, but I just can’t write what I’d like to on Yahoo Answers. If you are taking care of yourself, the dreams will change in time, and the danger of fantasy becoming reality will cease….if it exists at all. Take care of yourself! I know you better than you think I do. I know you because we have so much in common, and I understand. You’re a far better person than you think you are. Starla, get that book, “The Spirituality of Imperfection.” If you think it worthless, you’ll have wasted a few dollars. If, on the other hand, it changes your life, it will be priceless.
One day, perhaps, you and I can email each other. It might help. At the very least, know that you have a friend.
While this does not mean he has been unfaithful, it is a signal of your mind telling you that maybe he is not the one after all. Did you have any doubts or nagging worries before getting married? These are resurfacing.
Take more care for your husband, too, in daily live. When he works very hard and getting very tired, you know how to look after him.
Feelings is very important.
Deep down, are you SURE you trust him?
its prolly a sign