Here’s the thing, no matter what, he always blames me for everything. He blames me for eating everything, when i barely have anything for supper (i am underweight). he blames me for drinking all the stuff, when i didnt really drink it all. he blames me for moving his stuff, for taking his stuff, and he always thinks im lying when i tell the truth. when i stand up for myself, he threatens to send me to my grandmas, when really im just sticking up for myself by defending my point of view. No matter what, he blames me for everything, today, he got mad at me again just because he thinks i ate his lunch for work, when i bought my own snack from the store. im getting sick of him blaming me for every little thing and threatening to send me away for the smallest reasons. he treats my sister ok, but me, its like everything i do is wrong. its like im not trusted. help plz!!! what do i do??? im starting to hate my dad more and more every day.
He’s been threatening to take my stuff and hide it, and threaten to take anything i buy and somehow dispose of it, when i did nothing wrong. he ddoesnt trust me, and he blames me for everything. i dont lie to him either.
He’s been threatening to take my stuff and hide it, and threaten to take anything i buy and somehow dispose of it, when i did nothing wrong. he ddoesnt trust me, and he blames me for everything. i dont lie to him either.
I try to defend myself, but he threatens to ship me off.
I try to defend myself, but he threatens to ship me off.
My mom defends me, and tells him not to treat me this way, but he just gets mad. I think he has anger issues, his only way of solving problems is getting mad. he thinks he knows everything.
My mom defends me, and tells him not to treat me this way, but he just gets mad. I think he has anger issues, his only way of solving problems is getting mad. he thinks he knows everything.
My grandma’s is just as bad, she focuses all the attention on my aunt and uncle’s family, like our family doesnt matter. when i was down there, it was as if i never existed, and she even found stuff to complain about.
My grandma’s is just as bad, she focuses all the attention on my aunt and uncle’s family, like our family doesnt matter. when i was down there, it was as if i never existed, and she even found stuff to complain about.
I’m 16. I’ve tried talking to him, my sister tried to defend me and talk to him, my mom tried, instead, he just got mad and started insulting me saying bad stuff about me. he’s super stubborn.
I’m 16. I’ve tried talking to him, my sister tried to defend me and talk to him, my mom tried, instead, he just got mad and started insulting me saying bad stuff about me. he’s super stubborn.
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Man that really sounds like my dad. I get blamed for the smallest and stupidest reasons. I try standing up for myself and in the end he yells, makes me cry, or threatens he will send me to military school. He still does it and barely treats my other three sisters the same way. It is stupid. Then it always seems like my parents can’t trust me. Especially when I am out with friends or something. They always assume I am with guys and will get pregnant or do drugs just because of my attitude. It really ticks me off.
I don’t really know what you should do…I really think you should just stand up for yourself and tell him what he has been doing and saying to you and all that crap you don’t deserve. That is what I usually try to do. If he still threatens to send you to your grandmas then maybe you should actually leave for awhile then come back and see what happens. Or else maybe you should even try blaming him for stuff before he tries to blame you…it sounds stupid and a getting in trouble situation but I would probably try it.
Can you have a serious talk with him? What about your mother? He is using his power and control and abusing it and holding it over your head. If your sister and him get along well then maybe you could have her talk to him for you ? How old are you and when can you move out? Just try your best to stay out of his way and ignore it, he is being somewhat of a bully picking at you about everything. There may come a day when you just need to tell him off, don’t know if it will actually help but it may make you feel better.
Time to stand on your own two feet and move out!!! Either live with relatives for the time being or get onto the social services department of your local council / health authority and get going!!! Get out and stand on your own two feet, you’re old enough, you can work to pay your own rent etc – it will make you a better person in the long run – the man doesn’t like you and he must have his reason – no-one turns on their own just like that??? you’re not all sweetness and light eh? give the bloke a break – perhaps he just can’t handle a gobby teen? Good luck to you mate but seriously – learn now to be an adult – welcome to our world!!!
You didn’t mention anything about your mom. Why don’t you talk to your mom first and ask her the reason why your dad treating you like that. If she can help you to talk to your dad because i think you have the right to know the reason why he treating you like that and to think that you have a sister who don’t experincing you are in now. You better make a way to resolve that things because like you have said you started to hate you dad which is not good and healthy for you .
Man that sucks! I’m so sorry!! This is the toughest pain alive!
Hey you’re 16. Stand up for yourself, be like “I ain’t taking this **** anymore” and show your father just the man you are. He ain’t gonna pushh you around. Just don’t disrespect him. He is yor father after all. Go to support from your mom. And if you want ot leave the negative household, i believe you could somehow. You got 2 years boy!
I see he hate for whatever reason only he knows. If it helps for you to stay with your grandma, should take a break there and get a counsellor for your father. Mean time get distracted and focus on upgrading yourself to be independant and proof your value to your dad. Cheers!
My dad just blamed me for putting water in the trash. he hates me thats what.Cry. so your mom can yell at him. My dad honestly HATES me
see u r letting u dad get to u he knows that the stuff he says to u r bothering u by showing hin that it don’t bother u he may stop if not he needs help controling his anger problem
u should tell ur dad that u ant doing any thing mabey he will back off
why not leave and go to grandma’s house? maybe what you need is her love not his. you need to be free from harm and to be happy.