Is it normal for 2 best guy friends to sleep in the same bed together?

My older brother had his buddy over for the night. i went to wake them up for breakfast and they were sleeping in the same bed together even under the sheets together. i know my brother is not gay but do guys sometimes sleep with another guy for the night if they are buds? i know girls do but guys? what do you think?

19 Answers

  • Qwerty74
    1 month ago

    It’s not a problem as long as they aren’t naked and tangled up with each other… Seriously I’ve slept in the same bed as my best mate and on occasion with others but it’s usually at the end of a very drunken night and we just crash in the same bed.. It’s kind of assumed rather then being some kind of premeditated ‘weird’ thing that we’ve done…

    And I don’t get how some of you are saying that girls can sleep in the same bed but guys can’t… That makes no sense… Anyone who has that point of view probably has never met a ‘normal’ guy rather then a jock tool who can communicate, express and have a logical balanced point of view… Guess what they do exist.

    It’s nothing to worry about they are just close mates who are above all the homophobic nonsense, which is obviously a good thing…


  • The Man
    1 month ago

    It isn’t abnormal. When I was younger a friend of mine and I slept in the same bed. In the old days it happened A LOT. Abraham Lincoln slept with his roommate and he was not a homosexual. However, people of today who do not understand history try to say he was…

    Anyway, I wouldn’t say it’s normal or abnormal. It’s just something that happens when two people who are close get together.

  • lovemarieaaron
    1 month ago

    I had two best friends and we stayed over at one’s house alot and we would sometimes sleep on the bed together. Not for any other reason then that the bed was more comfortable then the floor. I believe that it is not good to be homophobic because then you will be thinking about homosexuality more. My girlfriend in highschool told me that.

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Im a girl and I’ll sleep in the same bed if it’s the only bed etc. (I’m straight.) But for a guy it is probably pointing to the fact that he is a homosexual. He may not even know it yet. usually wouldn’t the other guy sleep on the floor? Be careful about asking though, he may get mad at you and if you ask someone else they may spread rumors.

  • ?
    5 days ago

    If that’s what floats your boat – I see no problem with sleeping with a few Buu dees, it’s just that i like wearing sweats to bed , and a clean tee , unless it’s really really hot n humid

  • meg
    1 month ago

    TELL ME. how is normal for girls to sleep in the same bed together, but not guys? talk about a double standard. and why does it matter anyways? they’re just friends, and if they’re more than friends, no big deal. i wouldn’t worry about it.

  • Van Mitchell
    1 month ago

    i’ve slept in the same bed as a friend on occasion, but a FULLY clothed, drunk passed out kind of sleep.

    Undressing and getting under the covers with a guy is homosexual.

  • Ozzy32
    1 month ago

    I’m not a homophobe but I aint getting into bed with another guy, its just not something that most straight people would find acceptable.

  • Gabs
    1 month ago

    Of course not.

    I talked about this with my guy friend one time! Some guys are just really close friends and when it gets late enough they just crash! They don’t even really think too much about where lol. It’s just a friend thing.

  • kevin
    1 month ago

    i do it. when im at my really really really closest friend. hes like a brother to me. and the answer for me is YES when i spend the night at his house we sleep in the same bed. feel free to contact me at anytime. my Instante Message is [email protected]

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