I need to be more ruthless and mean. Any tips on how to stand up for myself?

Ever since I was young, people have walked all over me and been horrible to my face when I’ve done nothing to them. Today something happened that made me realise I need to be more of a ruthless b**** when I need to be. I’m a kind person at heart and I could never just start on someone so when someone’s being mean to me I let it happen and do nothing. How can I become more mean and ruthless when the time is right?

6 Answers

  • Sam
    1 month ago

    I’ve had the same problem, just simply think about yourself a bit more, and start being less selfless. If they are horrible enough to walk all over you, just do the same back. But don’t be like this too much, it may give the impression that you aren’t a nice person.

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Being ruthless and mean will make you a total ar$ehole but you can be assertive and sure of yourself. At other times you have to learn to let it go.

    When somebody is cruel to you, retaliate with the truth about them. People are that way to you because you are the threat. You will devastate them by telling them the truth:

    Without exception, these people are boring, tedious, self centred, pathetic, bitter, stupid bigots who can only understand their complete lack of worth to anybody.

    However, just about every bully feels the same way as you do. it’s their hostile defence that makes them a bully.

    What was the incident which made you feel this way and did you start the negative interaction?

  • Breanna P
    1 month ago

    I used to have the same problem. I think you just have to tell the person how you feel, even if it would hurt their feelings. Especially if they’re just being rude and hurtful to you for no reason. If the person/ people realize that you’re not going to be their doormat anymore and you’re not afraid to stick up for yourself, most likely they will leave you alone. The only way to make people quite messing with you is to voice your feelings. Hope this helps. Good luck =]

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    You have to REALLY have a hard life to be TRULY ruthless and evil, so don’t worry if they keep torturing you, you’ll get there eventually.

  • raggnaar
    1 month ago

    You need to start blaming all your problems and short-comings on others, quit feeling responsible for yourself. If you can convince yourself that everything is THEIR fault, you’ll soon develop the traits you desire. Much like Hitler blamed the Jews….Blacks blame the whites…. and Arabs blame Israel.

  • Gabriel
    1 month ago

    Get a Gun

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