I’m male, 13, and home schooled, and am very close to siblings and one other home schooled friend but I really want others, what can I do, please help. Thank you.
Heyy! I just turned 14, and I am homeschooled too, although I will be going to school for the first time next year. But I go to a youth group near me and I feel like everybody there is my family, I have a lot of great friends, guys and girls, and all different ages! Some people say that church relationships don’t work out but that’s not true! Cuz I have a thing with this guy and it has been like 4 and a half months, and we aren’t even “going out”, because I annoy allowed to date. But anyways, youth groups are great ways to mean trustworthy people. Other things would be sports teams, or homeschool co-ops.
I think you have to make up for it somehow. Being home-schooled doesn`t give you many opportunitys to make new friends. That is why personally, I don`t think it is the best way for a teen to be schooled, as most youngsters meet their friends through school.
The only way you can do it is to try and get out more (awkward again I know, at 13).
But you need to join a club or something – anything as long as it brings you into contact with kids of your own age group.
Meanwhile, if you feel desperate, make some pals on facebook. But make sure they are genuinely of your own age.
Do things that you can do socially. Go to the gym, talk to some people there. Ask your friends to introduce you to their other friends. If you go to church, start talking to the other people your age there. Join a social networking site. I’d say that the best way is to ask your friends to introduce you to their other friends though. Maybe go to a party with them!
im home schooled to and have been for a few years go to myyearbook.com and make a account there u can make alot of friends and get a girlfriend i got alot of friends on there and one of my friends is now my boyfriend on there and weve been dating 2 months:)
good luck making friends
first of all, home schooled limits your social circle therefore its hard to find a girlfriend. second, use the magical electronic called the computer. you can always find people who live near you on the internet.
Your only 13 dont worry about a girlfriend yet.
& maybe get a communication website maybe such as myspace or facebook?
hope this helps some.
When I was 13, I played with myself a lot.
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your parents are sheltering you to much you will never find anyone until you get in a public school or you move out but even then you wont know how to react with the world and it will take you some time