I’m not talking about murder, but I’m most certainly not referring to making him feel “jealous” either. Why go for the kill, when you can go for the pain?
I’m excellent at getting revenge. Yeah, yeah, yeah… everything astrology related says that about Scorpios, but I can be utterly soulless when enough rage is boiling through me. Similarly to as it is now.
This guy made me feel weak, played with my emotions, deceiving me into believe he actually felt something for me, and really just made me feel human again. This is intolerable to me. No one can do that to me and just expect to walk away, so enlighten me… this guy is just about as emotionless towards others as I am, so I’ll admit, it’s a little tricky to plan, when there’s nothing to work with. Obviously, human weakness, but he doesn’t seem to care for anyone else, but himself. It’s tricky, but not impossible.
lol the guy doesn’t deserve it… that’s a good one. I’m not talking about one situation, people, I’m talking about an entire period of me catering to his every need and he didn’t even care. It just took me this long to realize how blind I was.
lol the guy doesn’t deserve it… that’s a good one. I’m not talking about one situation, people, I’m talking about an entire period of me catering to his every need and he didn’t even care. It just took me this long to realize how blind I was.
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just walk away. nothing pisses off a libra more when you dont pay attention to them. They HATE it when you ignore them and it tortures them. I used to be friends with one and when i ignored her when i was angry she tortured herself with thoughts and called a lot and such. They NEED attention and in bad situations they do tend to like drama so if you dont give it to them they get mad. Simply walking away from him will be enough to drive him crazy. He knows he’ll be alone and not on a pedestal anymore so he may just freak! i seen it happen before and its not evil or anything….they do it to themselves. Sure it sounds cold but If you dont like him / that libra all you gotta do is walk away…he isnt your concern…and theres your revenge…..i know not exactly what you may have wanted but it works trust me.
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Recently dated a Libra man and everything was hot and heavy very fast from him. I told him from the beginning I wanted to go slow as I am.going through a divorce. His daily calls, consistent telling me to make time, his charm, the dates. I fell for him and started giving him my time and attention, then bam nothing. I reached out to understand, he tells me he prefer I be divorced. I am kind of hurt he would go from hot to cold so quickly especially when he knew what he was walking into. As for revenge, I believe in the best revenge is to move on and be happy and show the person they never existed. It sucks when a person will not give you closure because they want to avoid fighting, but take note that it’s him, not you. You deserve so much better, just like me.
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I can really understand your situation b/c I was with a libra man with almost 6 years. At the time he acted like he cared but i was blindsighted on a holiday after giving him a choice to work on the relationship or leave.
I agree with everyone else. Best thing to do is ignore the jerk and move on like he means nothing to you. I remember bumping into him and he lost a lot of weight few months after b/c his friend told him he saw my profile on match.
But that was most it can do to hurt him. Libras can be very self-centered and manipulative so he’s not going to torture himself. so u shouldn’t either.
Just discard everything you guys had together and do something frivolous with the things he gave you. Libras are charming enough to fool people so it will be difficult to have others turn against him.
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Fight fire with fire. Think up something as sinister as what he did to you. If you are that emotionless and he made you hurt so badly and feel human pain, you certainly could do the same to his sorry butt. Okay, this probably sounds like a pretty lame plan and probably sounds too insane to work, but you need to find a way to hurt him as much as he did you, so set up a spurious relationship. Though it probably would not work if he already used you, maybe you could use your ability for manipulation to get him back with you. Maybe he would accept just in an attempt to use you once again, but you would know better this time. Be as fake and convincing as you can be. Then when the time comes, turn the tables. A manipulator never expects to be manipulated. Knock him on his butt with pain. Embarrass him. I cannot really tell you the details, you would need to figure them out yourself, but do something of the sort. Otherwise, you could get someone else in on it if you trust her well enough. If you know someone else with your manipulative abilities, have her pull it over. I would say that you would need to do it yourself to get desirable results, but I do not know if even you could pull it off since he is such a manipulative jerk. You could only try, it is worth it. Things are easier said than done, and I know I would not have the fakeness to pull something like this over, but maybe you will fare better.
Edit: now that I think of it, unless you cannot find inner peace in any way other than to get revenge on him, maybe you should try to be passive about it. Though revenge certainly would make you feel better, and for that reason definitely is a possibility, no matter how badly you hurt him, when he looks back and sees what you did all for your feelings for him, he will feel proud and even more important than he does already. Go which ever way you think is best.
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You can’t get revenge on a Libra because if they have walked away like this from you it means they are done and you really don’t matter anymore. You see we Libra’s just don’t like conflict so just acting like it never happened is the way we end things.
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yeah they like cant live without attention, but the libras i know are really neat and cant stand to have their stuff messed up. my sis is a libra (and i happen to be a scorpio too) and i messed up her room(like threw everything on the floor, stuff like that) when i was mad at her, i threw all her stuff on the ground and she FREAKED! funny stuff. yeah that is true, we are good at getting revenge. i love being a scorpio. LOL 🙂 yeah i had a similar expierience with a libra, but it was my friend. she kept doing so many things that made me feel stupid and i couldnt handle it any more. but she is better now 🙂 lol. yeah they are a little powerful in that way, but they can be nice. oh and try to show him u are over it. 🙂
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This is coming from a Scorpio woman. I know how you feel, but I know that the best revenge you can give him is to show him that you’ve happily moved on and is having a great life not being with him. Act like you are unscathed by any of his actions. The best you can do is learn from this. Don’t give too much of yourself to those who don’t deserve it. When my heart used to be broken, I hated seeing my ex being moved on and happy without me. So show him that and be the bigger person. I used to do stupid stuff out of anger and it did nothing but make me seem psycho, immature and irrational. It also made me feel bad about myself later on. I’ve heard that there are 2 types to our sign. There’s the Scorpion then there’s the Eagle who soars above. Which one do you want to be?
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Karma is a ***** however Libras need a lot of attention and they also fall deeply in love wearing their heart in there sleeves so give him the silent treatment.
Good luck.
Due to your extra detail i would like to add that you should not waste your time.I hope you learned that next time treat yourself to date multiple guys at a time and have them all far for you feel special and live your life.
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2 wrongs defiantly dont make a right! You went way far. Just because someone is a selfish jerk that doesn’t have enough balls to end it with you to your face doesn’t mean you should stoop to their level…You shouldn’t have let him see you sweat! The best revenge is moving on with your life and being happy.
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i think you should put him down tell him hes ugly..just attack his self esteem because i am a libra and have been with a libra guy and he was like that too ..they hate rejection,put downs,acting like u dont care about them etc and making sure he knos he cant get u back is the biggest revenge