My boyfriend was talking about showering together before. I’d really like to, except for the part how I’m super insecure about my body. Every time we’ve been however naked, there’s been a blanket over us and the lights were off, so in a shower it’s all out there. What do I do?
If he wants to shower with you its not all about sex, probly some, but not all. Its about you, my girlfriend and i shower together occassionally and i love it. I personally dont prefere shower sex as it it hard to do but I still think it is sensual. I can just about guarantee that he thinks you look better than you think you do. If he wants to see you nakid he thinks you are attractive, but showering with you is not all about getting you nakid. It is part of the fun, kind of a forplay kinda thing but it is a nice way to mix things up and let each other in a little bit. At some point you have to let your guard down a bit, that however should def. be your decision though. Dont do anything you dont want to, but if your only hang up about it, is that he will see you, totally nakid, in the light, id say you are over reacting. If you are that worried about it, get in the shower before him or better yet, have him undress and be nakid and vulnerable first. Then after he’s in you can get nakid and step in when you feel ready. Just remember if hes seeing you the first time, you’re also seeing him, and his imperfections too.
Wash each others bodies with soap. Hold each other under the warm water. Having sex in a shower isn’t the best idea. It’s a hard thing to do unless it’s a huge shower and even then, so don’t worry about it. You could wash each others hair. You should probably let him know before you get in that you don’t actually want to have sex. Kissing under the water feels nice too, or even just with the water running down your backs.
Stop hanging up on your body, the guy loves you for you. He will have to actually see you naked one day, if you love him. Tell him that you are nervous about this, but say something like. I will only shower with you if I can do it on my terms, then say the first time wear a bikini, the next time just the bikini bottoms. Then the third tome nothing.
Well that very understanding what you feeling since almost everybody feel that way one time in there life. You should tell him you don’t feel comfortable about taking a shower together and he should know you well enough to know why. Also he should be understanding why you not wanting to take a shower.
Tell him you’re really insecure about your body and that you would rather not take a shower with him. explain it to him like you did just now. tell him he’s never seen your body in the light of day, only in pitch black and you’re scared… he’ll probably understand. Hopefully he’ll make you feel comfortable enough one day to experiment.
Shower. Who cares about your body apparently he doesn’t if he wants to shower with you
I was actuallyy the same way, If he likes you under the covers he would like you with the covers off. He seen it all so why hide it now, he must like what he sees..
now you can do it i believe in you, have some confience n yourself.
You can shower with candle lights so its not bright.
Thats all I can think of.
You are gonna have to lett go of yourself sometime, maybe it’s too early in your relationship
this is so nice and you will found out how sexy it is!!, that is if you go for it!!!, but if you don’t feel you’re up for it talk to your bf and tell him you’re not ready yet!!! but you’re missing all the fun believe me!!!