ok.. my real question is… do you think its wrong for a 31 year old and 21 year old to date?
ive been seeing a 31 year old for about 3 weeks,
we havnt had sex (yet)
so i know its not a physical thing..(like most relationships start)
were actually really into eachother..
what do you think??
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Omgoodness, when I read your question, I literally laughed to myself because I’m in the SAME EXACT POSITION!
I’m 20 and my boyfriend’s 33 so the age gap is even bigger. In 2 weeks is our 1 year anniversary already!
It is NOT wrong in any way, shape or form! I’ll be honest though, when my boyfriend and I started dating, the age gap felt awkward at first. He had never dated anyone as young as I was and I had never dated anyone as old as he was, but you guys just have to realize that you two are dating each other and not the rest of the world. Who cares if other people think its wrong or awkward. If you two like each other then go for it! Besides, you’re over 18 so it’s not like it’s illegal haha.
Don’t let anyone get in the way of your relationship! If you guys really like each other, go for it! My boyfriend and I did. It was awkward for our friends and family at first but everyone’s past it and now we couldn’t be any happier!
Is 31 Old For A Man
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21 year old female dating a 31 year old man?
ok.. my real question is… do you think its wrong for a 31 year old and 21 year old to date?
ive been seeing a 31 year old for about 3 weeks,
we havnt had sex (yet)
so i know its not a physical thing..(like most relationships start)
were actually really into eachother..
what do you think??
i think its fine 🙂 though the age difference is a bit big 10 years? its still ok most people have bigger age differences so you dont have to worry about it. if you guys do end up being together for a long time it wont look as ‘questionable’ because of the age..like if you were 31 and he was 41 it doesnt look as bad even though its still the same as 21 and 31 🙂 but if he looks young you dont have to worry about people questioning or looking at you guys. if your into each other then its fine 🙂
to answer your question, i dont think its wrong at all
Absolutely not wrong. My parents are twelve years apart, my grandparents are 18 years. No worries. As long as you both are comfortable with the relationship, no worries at all.
Happy loving!
My wonderful lady and I are much further apart in age than that and we have great relationship in all aspects.
It’s all about love and respect for each other… not what others think about you.
it disgusting I’m I just turned 21 if like date someone your age stop trying to b young
age is a number once u reach 18 and over that is……but some ppl mostly men are toooo immature anway..a ten yr difference isnt too mad if the mind is right
in my opinion is the perfect match as for ages , men should be 10 years older then the women, since women are more mature then the men , so this will keep the balance . good luck !
Age is but a number.
if both of you are happy, why should it matter what everyone else thinks.
People may frown up it, but you are both adults. and capable of making your own decisions and its your happiness on the line, no one elses.
i truely believe that problems in a relationship cannot be blamed on the age.
people are who they are, regardless of their ages.